No matter how much we deny this, but subconsciously, we do end up comparing ourselves with the people we see on the mega social platforms. Let the bitter truth walk in, we are just trying our best to be conventional, to the live up to the standards we see others are setting in. We actually shed our real self off for doing better than the best.We end up having a hit on self-confidence and feel vulnerable and think how underachieved we are at this age and begin to beat ourselves for pushing ourselves. And ironically, we do this under the name of being ‘Influenced’ or ‘Motivated’.
There is absolutely no need to think big or think out of the box, there’s just a need to think. Sit and ask yourself, why do you hate Mondays so much when you are doing something that you yourself have taken up? Why do you live only on weekends? Why do you hate being single? This is the same thing we used to do in our childhood, wanting so badly to be an adult. And once you are an adult, you so badly want to be a child again. Same thing applied, you’re single, why do you rush to get into something which will eventually come in the right time. Live these days like reckless rabbits and hop here and there being as unconventional as you can. Work hard for what you want, not simply for what you’re expected of. Our life is waiting for us to take the right step right now. It only wants us to live.
Do what matters in real. Have a balance. Real versus material. Tell me, how is your career going to matter on your deathbed when you had let the love of your life go away exactly to make that career up? It is not a secret, power, money or position can’t give you that feeling of relief of taking the last breath in the arms of someone you love, yet that’s exactly what we still run after! How is not going to trips for studying way too much, dreading over scores make you a better person of wisdom? How is taking risks and breaking conventions not going to make you explore yourself? Chaotic? Be someone who can’t be described in a damn resume. It all comes down to the choices; we all want the same thing at the end of the day. We simply choose different means. So can our choice be redirected to where we do not hurt ourselves and others?